A friend of mine is quite depressed and I have no fucking clue how to help them more that just offering to be there so maybe you can give some input...

2022.01.19 20:21 BunnyLovesApples A friend of mine is quite depressed and I have no fucking clue how to help them more that just offering to be there so maybe you can give some input...

All right so I don't know a bunch but enough to know that he need serious help so let me give you some background info.
Said friend was confronted with his cop dad's toxic masculinity his whole life. Being manly was just normal, going hand in hand with not confronting problems when it is really necessary. His dad was always an idol to him, big strong, doing great stuff for society with his job and so on and he saw himself as kind of nothing without any self-esteem. So shortly said there have been issues since almost ever that he never confronted or anything and now tries to impress his dad and be the son he never could be by becoming a police inspector.
Ever since all of this he slid down the slippery slope of mental health, acting edgy, trying to have that old time detective look with long geled back hair, long coat and smoking for the aesthetic. He basically building up that persona just trying to be a manly male inspector.
It then got worse when his gf (a good friend of mine) left him. He can't really get over her, playing it off, retweeting depressed memes and wanting to drink alcohol all the time but is still able to just drink on weekends.
Also to add a little wild part in here: A year earlier I broke up with my highly abusive ex, who is in said circle of friends and was asked by the friend how to get over a breakup. Almost nobody back then knew that my ex was abusive AND that he tried to get laid with said friends ex 15 MINUTES after he found out that they broke up. Now he knows and as you can guess plays it off but you can see that he is hurting.
I already texted him about everything but again he plays it off every time anybody brings it up but once drunk send me a meme privately that he doesn't know how to deal with serious emotions without turning it into a joke.
I really don't want him do completely crash into already existing high depression, alcohol abuse and anything that can come with it but I feel like it is not appropriate to force him to talk and that he needs to talk to me if something is up. I always tell him that he is able to talk to me when needed and I don't know if there is more that I can do
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I just got back from a trip to Peru and fell in love with Cherimoya. Anyone seen it around town? Fiesta, maybe?
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2022.01.19 20:21 straydoug Trouble installing GTX 1650 SUPER

Been working on a new build for my elementary-age son's first PC (parts list below). It's my first time building one in like 15 years but I used to do this all the time for both self and work. Figured it would be a fund project for me and a good learning experience for him to begin to understand a bit about all the different components and what they do. I've selected the parts and been able to overcome a couple hiccups in the build process thanks largely to this forum (and a few others), but now I'm stuck.
Where I'm at currently: Everything except the GPU assembled and operating as expected. Windows 10 is installed (still need to input a proper license, but let's get the hardware up and running first) and connected to the home Wi-Fi network. Using integrated video for display output.
What's the problem: If I install the GTX 1650 Super GPU card (and attach the 6-pin PCI-E power supply, turning the on-card LED from red to white) and then attempt to boot, I get 5 short beeps and no video (no matter if I attach to the card port or the integrated video port, and I tried both HDMI and DVI cables). However despite this unusual audio feedback and lack of video, it does seem Windows then proceeds to load as usual, as a short while later I can hear what sounds like a Windows load sound chime through the external speakers.
The only diagnostic guide I've been able to find is this general one for the Gigabyte motherboard (https://www.gigabyte.com/Support/FAQ/816) which indicates that 5 short beeps is a "Real Time Clock malfunction", but not 100% confident that's the correct diagnostic for my MB specifically, nor how to resolve/address that issue. Some reading online said to try removing components and reinstalling them (while unplugged, of course). Removing the GPU I can resume normal operation via integrated video, but if I then try to install the card again I hit the same 5-beep/no-video roadblock. One site suggested this means the GPU is incompatible with my MB, but I'm pretty sure that's not the case here, as these components were both listed on the recommended build that I worked off of, and they also show as compatible on PCPartPicker.com as well.
Not sure where to go from here... any suggestions appreciated!

Build Parts List
Case Lian Li Lancool 215 Tempered Glass eATX Full Tower Computer Case - Black
PSU G.Skill 650 Watt 80 Plus Bronze ATX Semi-Modular Power Supply
MB GIGABYTE B560M DS3H (LGA 1200/ Intel/ B560/ Micro-ATX/Dual M.2/ PCIe 4.0/ USB 3.2 Gen1/ GbE LAN/Motherboard)
CPU Intel Core i5-11400 Rocket Lake 2.6GHz Six-Core LGA 1200 Boxed Processor - Intel Stock Cooler Included
RAM Silicon Power DDR4 RAM 16GB (8GBx2) Turbine 3200MHz (PC4 25600) 288-pin CL16 1.35V UDIMM Desktop Memory Module (SP016GXLZU320BDA)
SSD WD Black SN750 SE 1TB 3D TLC NAND PCIe Gen 4 x4 NVMe M.2 Internal SSD
GPU ASUS NVIDIA GeForce GTX 1650 SUPER 4GB GDDR6 Graphic Card (PH-GTX1650S-O4G)
Wi-Fi TP-LINK AC1200 Wireless Dual Band PCI Express Adapter
Case Speaker Kingwin Case Speaker Cable for PC
External Speakers Cyber Acoustics Powered 2 Channel Stereo Computer Speakers - Black
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2022.01.19 20:21 YoungWave94 Log in via Facebook option missing?

Anyone else unabe to access their account because of this?
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2022.01.19 20:21 TheRivalMenace [USA-MD][H] Pixel 6 Pro Slightly Sunny [W] PayPal, Local Cash

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Anyone know of any good house cleaning businesses? Looking for a recurring agreement. Searching facebook, nextdoor, and yelp just has me running in circles. I live in South Reno if that makes a difference. Any advice is appreciated.
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2022.01.19 20:21 ClimateJobsBOT ✨ ZeroAvia is looking for a Software Test Engineer @ 📍 Seattle, United States 🇺🇸

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2022.01.19 20:21 VoziMeNaPale Just me and my thoughts

Uhh. This is hard for me. Dont bother reading I just have to get some things off my chest but I dont have someone to talk to so I'll vent here.
I have been alone from a very young age, (I had different interests and was more mature than others in primary school and also bullied bc of itl) but I learned how to accept it, and thought it would change in high school. Then Corona struck and made it even worse. Considering that I go to HS that only good students and "smart" ones go to (hs has that status but its not true), I thought I will finally find someone to talk about music, books, movies.. You know normal things. But I didnt. Everyone has their own friends, and we dont have the same interests. Im very social and Im good with all of them and its not the problem that we dont like the same things, I can talk about anything, but they are just..not intrested.. I spent New Years Eve alone again.. I think that Im a pretty cool girl but somehow cant make any friends. Im trying to occupy my mind by drawing, reading books (I have just read Demian by Hesse, it's about loneliness and finding your own identity, recommend!!) watching movies, playing video games, taking long walks and talking to myself.. But sometimes I just dont want to do these things anymore, I just want to have someone to talk to. Its overwhelming. Im worried nothing will change in college, since in primary school I thought my loneliness will change in HS, but it didnt. I also started thinking how when I get old and look back on my teenage days, I will get sad because I had spent them like this. But I dont know what to change, its others peoples choice if they want to be friends with me or not. Guess I'll just have to exist by then and wait.. Its actually very hard to find the person who will truly understand you and its a miracle if you find that person at all.
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2022.01.19 20:21 Astroboy0410 What are the reasons why women just…stop talking to you even if you had a great convo the day or night before?

I just need a little help figuring this one out. Cause I dont know if I do something wrong that’s why I’m ghosted after a really awesome conversation, even days of great conversation
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2022.01.19 20:21 LivelyLemon12 What Fans Should I Get With the ASUS Prime Z690-P Motherboard?

I’ve been looking around for a while and have found this mobo for a new build but I’m wondering what types of RGB fans to get. In total there’s:
1x Aura Header 3x Addressable Aura Header 1x RGB Header
Should I be getting aura fans or is something like these ok:
I know I can fit an aio that I want in its specific mobo header but how many of those fans mentioned above would I be able to plug in? Would it be up to the limit of the external RGB hub?
Thanks, I’ve been looking online for a while but haven’t been able to get a solid answer and I appreciate any responses!
TL;DR: aura fans or non-aura. How many fans for Z690-P
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